So I recently took a much needed trip to the mountains with my wife. I knew the weather would be cold the first half of our trip but I really wanted to go hiking.
The cabin we rented had the best view out of anyplace I've ever stayed at. The entire back of the cabin was all glass, and the mountain I wanted to climb was staring at me EVERY DAMN DAY!
I'd relax in the jacuzzi with a beer and that mountain was looking at me. I'd go out on the back porch to grill food and I'd look over and see that mountain again.
I'd pull into the parking space on my return from a trip to the store for groceries and the first thing I'd see was that damn mountain again!
Now, I love hiking, but equipped hiking isn't something I'm experienced with. When we hike it's usually in the spring and summertime where slipping on ice and falling to your death isn't an issue of concern.
I asked some of the locals around town about the dangers of trying to hike the mountain and they all told me to “Stay away from it right now.”
I must have looked out of my back window 200 fucking times at that mountain that week. I started to get more and more pissed off.
I went to Wal-mart (yes I know and you know by now that I DESPISE THAT PLACE) but going to Wal-mart wasn't as bad as the defeat I'd feel not even trying to climb.
If you're looking for a decent daypack and some basic survival gear, adjustable climbing poles, rope, and cheap items such as emergency ponchos in case it rains, and other various items like cheap battery operated headlamps, then honestly this isn't a bad place to pick up these items without breaking the bank.
Yes, I fucking hate going to Wal-mart and I try to avoid it like the plague, but I didn't know exactly how cold the weather would be near the peak of the mountain or what might come in handy.
If I didn't use it, I'm sure I still would eventually.
Also, the daypack had a lifetime guarantee and it ran me under $40, so not a bad deal!
So my stay was supposed to be for 4 nights and to leave out on the 5th day.
FUCK THAT, I COULDN'T LEAVE UNTIL WE HIKED THAT MOUNTAIN!
I called the property rental agency and they gave me 1 additional night for 1/3 of the cost since nobody had rented it out.
The following day my wife and I were going to hike that son of a bitch that we had been staring at all week! All bets were off!
I woke up at 6am and started packing my gear up. I didn't eat breakfast as it wasn't a concern for me. I tossed about 6 or 7 granola bars and 2 bags of beef jerky into my pack, and 2 liters of water.
I had been timing the sunset all week and we had about a 10 1/2 hour window to ascend and descend before dark.
We began hiking at 8am and as it was warmer that day than the beginning of the week (although some snow and ice on trails, most of them were accessible to climb).
We walked through caves on the way up, rock steps, tiny bridges over streams and waterfalls with icicles. Winter hiking is pretty fucking badass! I like it even better than warm weather hiking.
WHO ELSE WAS ON THE TRAIL?
Like-minded people were who we ran into.
We had great conversations with people who talked about how they were sick of the rat race, tired of seeing kids glued to electronic devices like zombies, and how much of a beautiful day it was for what we were all doing!
People smiled, they asked us where we were from, and they talked about where they were from. They didn't knuckle bump us, they shook our hands. One guy even offered us some extra food in his bag that he brought with him.
Then we ran into a group of about 5 or 6 friends who were on that mountain in freezing temperatures for the past 3 days. They were already at the peak before sunrise, just to get photos of the sun coming up over the clouds.
The sky looked blood red, and the cloud coverage was 100% below the sun. The clouds rolled on for miles and the guy showed me one of the coolest photos I've ever seen!
Getting that photo didn't come easy and it took sacrifice. How cool were his friends to be on board with spending 3 days in freezing cold temperatures in the mountains just to accomplish something?
The only issue with this climb was once you got about 4/5 of the way up, it was impossible to ascend the peak without microspike shoes.
The ice became far too dangerous and we didn't have the shoes because it's just something I didn't think of, nor planned out well since I'm new to cold weather hiking.
So we got pretty close to the top but we decided it wasn't worth dying over, so we decided to go back down. Trust me, one slip in some parts and it would have been game over!
Another couple was in the same situation, only they had microspikes but accidentally left them in their car.
As we walked back down and got about halfway back, that same couple that forgot their spikes walked back up past us. They were going to basically hike the mountain twice, because ascending the peak meant THAT MUCH TO THEM!
They weren't going to make it back before dark. They would have to hike back down with lights, but they didn't seem to give a damn.
WHATEVER IT TOOK RIGHT?
I walked past them and felt instantly empowered by the strength I saw in them!
I knew that I was around winners that day. Every person we spoke to and passed was a damn winner! You don't find people like that just anywhere now!
HOW MANY PEOPLE ON THAT MOUNTAIN WERE BODYBUILDERS?
I was probably the only bodybuilder on the trail that day.
But I was surrounded by winners and warriors!
I'm getting to the point in my life where I would rather be around people with a winning attitude regardless of whether they're into the gym or not.
I find life exciting to learn about new things and you bet your ass that I'm going to be ordering 2 sets of microspikes off Amazon really soon, and seeking more snow and ice hikes!
Winners are out there, but you need to look for them in the right places! Just because someone is into the gym, doesn't mean they have the best attitude nor are they happy with life.
But it certainly CAN HELP!
How many of your boys (or girls) would be down for going to a mountain in the cold and spending 3 days up there away from all normality?
Probably not many, IF ANY! So this leads me to my next topic…
GET INVOLVED WITH A GROUP OR AN ACTIVITY OUTSIDE OF JUST LIFTING!
There are people out there that are like you; they're sick of the way the world has become and they're sick of all the fake, plastic bullshit! There are groups who do things together based on common interests.
These activities develop camaraderie and relationships and can enhance your life!
Some of the guys or gals you become involved with may be picking your brain for gym knowledge while you pick theirs for climbing knowledge or backpacking, or whatever you get into.
Listen, I LOVE THE GYM, that's no secret! But when I combine my gym lifestyle with other activities that positive people partake in, life is so much more fulfilling to me!
It's a reminder that good people still exist; like-minded people who value good conversation and living 110% in the moment rather than”tuned out” STILL EXIST! But you need to find them in the right places.
HOW MAKING 1 LAST MINUTE DECISION ENHANCED MY LIFE
I could have just looked at that mountain that was covered in snow at the top all week, telling myself that climbing wouldn't be possible or worth it.
But I said to myself on the last day ,”Ok, it's a little warmer today and maybe we can get to the top. What's the harm in JUST TRYING?”
Today my wife and I actually lived. We looked out over the skies, explored a new area, and for the first time ever did winter weather hiking (which is dangerous as fuck, look into micro-spikes for your climbing boots!)
During the climb I thought about a lot in life. I thought about how some guys could not do what people in their 50's and 60's were doing due to bad knees from squatting too heavy over the years.
I thought about proactive measures to stay strong and ripped up but healthy enough to be active for the long-haul!
I thought about how hydration and cardio were the 2 most important things to FEEL GOOD as well as LOOK GOOD. I pounded that thought into my mind throughout that entire hike;
- HYDRATION AND CARDIO #1
- HYDRATION AND CARDIO #1
- HYDRATION AND CARDIO #1
So because of the brainstorming during the hike, I picked up a new priorities for my physique development AS WELL AS PERFORMANCE!
HYDRATION AND CARDIO!
My wife felt worth a damn because she accomplished it with me. Ok, so maybe we didn't acend to the very top due to ice, but we at least tried!
I will return next time with micro spikes and reach the top.
FUCK YOUR MASTERPLAN!
Do you know what masterplans always got me? Yea, fucking disappointment! Everything and anything great in my life came from those last minute decisions to just say “FUCK IT, I'M GOING FOR IT”!
Stop telling yourself you cannot do things, stop telling yourself that you cannot enjoy your life because of roadblocks that you've mentally created for yourself. Look for every reason to do something than every reason to avoid it!
Because when you begin looking for every reason to avoid things you don't grow, you get weak! Most adults are worse than kids when it comes to having the balls to just get up and do it!
The only difference is that they're experienced enough at spewing bullshit that other people believe it.
Yea yea, life is about having that perfect little job, paying your dues for a retirement you may never see, and investing all of your money so one day you “finally make it.”
I SAY FUCK THAT!
If I want to eat a ribeye steak every God Damn day then that's what I'm eating. If once a month my goal is to conquer some shit then that's what I'm doing!
Foolish? Irresponsible? Sacrificing wealth for life experiences?
Nah, you see I've seen a lot of death in my life. One day you're here and the next day you're gone and then you're social security number is erased like you never even existed!
Families cannot even process what has happened when someone goes, IT'S CRUEL AND IT'S QUICK!
So here is my advice to you and you can take it or leave it; you may not live in the biggest home or the nicest area of town, and you may not drive the newest and nicest car.
You may be like me and live in a tiny home that was all you could afford at the time you purchased it. The home has no “man cave”, nowhere to get away from your family unless you go to bed, and everyone is in the same room 90% of the time.
Quit listening to social media bullshit about how you're never successful enough!
I'm not saying that I'm a rockstar, but I wouldn't trade my life for ANYTHING!
Maybe you could achieve success right now if you started actually living a REAL LIFE and quit getting distracted by bullshit and this overhyped idea of entrepreneurship.
You see, I know better; most entrepreneurs are making jack shit and still living off the system or their parents! (not saying it's not a great idea and possible, but it's not for everyone).
Stop worrying about snapping photos of Lambos and posing in front of someone else's car. Ok, you have abs and you're standing in front of someone's car….
THAT MEANS FUCK-ALL!
Real entrepreneurs don't play this “fake it till you make it” game. They just shut the fuck up and keep pushing forward!
Don't forget to have fun in life! Not everything has to be the best…. but is the hiking gear enough to at least start climbing?
You'll feel so much more alive! -JD